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Zoe C.
Zimbabwe
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OG since: 05/20/2009
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I was at my 14 year old neighbor's house yesterday.
She told me that a couple weeks before, she made out with some guy.. and went out and bought a pregnancy test afterward because she thought she was pregnant.
Yes, pregnant from making out with someone.
I don't understand. I knew I wasn't that daft two years ago, I knew a lot about sex, but wtf? Do the schools not teach them how pregnancy is caused? Or is this girl one of the minority examples of plain stupidity? Is it her parent's fault for not educating her?
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Georgia L.
SYDNEY,
Australia
161 posts
OG since: 10/25/2009
i think she really is a one and only.
a special case, haha.
posted Mar 13, 2010
Kendall K.
ON THE SHORELINE,
United States
55 posts
OG since: 03/02/2010
i'm 14....so no.
posted Mar 13, 2010
Alyssa S.
YOUR LAST DAY DREAM,
United States
18 posts
OG since: 02/28/2010
in california we have sex ed in 5, 7, 8, 9, and 11th grade.... that girl is an idiot
posted Mar 14, 2010
Feathers K.
NL,
Europe
39 posts
OG since: 10/13/2008
To be honest, I prefer idiot 14-year-olds like this to 14-year-old sluts who already lost their virginity.
posted Mar 14, 2010
Linda L.
NEW YORK CITY,
United States
66 posts
OG since: 03/07/2010
lmao... I think that it's just plain stupidity.
I didn't have sex ed until the 8th grade, which in my opinion is quite late. I've known how babies were made since the 3rd grade.
posted Mar 14, 2010
Billie J.
LOS ANGELES,
United States
4590 posts
OG since: 03/16/2009
i miss michelle's comments on here so much!
but i still have connection to her via facebook/tumblr
posted Mar 14, 2010
Dizzy B.
WONDERLAND (U.K),
United Kingdom
30 posts
OG since: 03/14/2010
haha nope
posted Mar 15, 2010
Morgan T.
United States
340 posts
OG since: 01/31/2010
maybe she thinks making out is sex
posted Mar 15, 2010
Kelly W.
SUBURBAN BRISBANE,
Australia
195 posts
OG since: 03/04/2010
Would have been strange selling a pregnancy test kit to a 14 year old.
Just sayin'.
posted Mar 21, 2010
Skinny L.
PORTUGAL,
Portugal
91 posts
OG since: 03/19/2010
this kinda made me laugh lol who bough the pregnancy test? the 14 old girl? :S
posted Mar 21, 2010
Liisa, ..
GöTEBORG,
Sweden
1351 posts
OG since: 02/08/2009
A minority, yes.
Or atleast to many-
posted Apr 5, 2010
Rebecca N.
ENGLAND,
United Kingdom
555 posts
Member since: 10/30/2010
She's just a bit dim
evidently
posted Dec 20, 2011
Christina A.
TEXAS,
United States
614 posts
OG since: 06/06/2010
I've met quite a few teenyboppers like that. When I was in private school and about that age one girl told me that she was on an acne medication so strong that if she even kissed a guy she could get pregnant. A lot of people aren't educated about sex, like my 22 year-old neighbor had no idea what sex was until she got to college because her parents sheltered her so much. On the bright side, girls like this are not the majority. On the down side, the pre-teens/teenagers that are 'educated' about sex are moving waaay too fast.
posted Dec 20, 2011
Laurie B.
ROTTERDAM,
Netherlands
113 posts
Member since: 11/06/2011
maybe she ws afraid/ashamed to say: ''I had sex even though I'm 14' and she didn't want to sound like a cheap slut
so she made it a little better with make-out
posted Dec 28, 2011
Tim G.
OUDENAARDE,
Belgium
222 posts
Member since: 05/21/2011
personal stories?
must've been pretty traumatizing.
posted Dec 28, 2011
Shaz O.
United Kingdom
1254 posts
Member since: 12/08/2010
Haha, well my sister skipped a lot of those science sex classes (she thought they were icky) so she also thinks you can get pregnant by kissing someone, and shes 14.
posted Dec 28, 2011
Carolyn M.
JOISEY,
United States
942 posts
OG since: 09/25/2009
No, thankfully not everyone is like that! I have several younger girl cousins who were all educated about sex in school from a young age (they went to the same MS/HS I did). I'm the oldest cousin on this side and I know we're close and that they look up to me, so they ask me questions all the time. I don't really mind, I'm just honest. But I know they've kissed guys, and they weren't worried about getting pregnant haha.
posted Dec 29, 2011
Sarah B.
ASTEROID B-612,
United States
1176 posts
Member since: 10/09/2010
geez, i hope not.
posted Dec 29, 2011
Elise :.
SYDNEY,
Australia
933 posts
Member since: 03/20/2011
when I was 14 we had sex ed in health class and science as well, like we had to label diagrams of penises and stuff, and learn how to put a condom on and watch women give birth but at the same time they were all like 'DON'T HAVE SEX UNLESS YOU LOOOOOOOOOOVE THEM' which is a bit unrealistic imo. but really, it's the parents' job to properly educate kids on this stuff, so maybe she was heaps sheltered, or like someone said she was lying about having sex :P
posted Dec 29, 2011
Karmen D.
Croatia
886 posts
Member since: 01/26/2011
I think they're not. Or at least I hope.
posted Dec 29, 2011
Camille T.
THE PAST,
United States
16 posts
OG since: 12/09/2009
Wait, is it just WRONG for this 14 year old to make out and stuff? And who bought her pregnancy test anyway? HAH I'M LAUGHING
posted Dec 29, 2011
Logen M.
WA.,
United States
83 posts
Member since: 10/22/2010
And there you have it, ladies and gentlemen.
posted Dec 29, 2011
Lise C.
United Kingdom
24 posts
OG since: 01/04/2010
if she thought she could get pregnant from making out then why didn't they use condoms?
bad joke. i know.
anyway, yes i think it's rare 14 y/o girls don't know about babies and sex etc.
part parents fault, part fault of schools, part her own 'fault' (can't really call it her fault if she doesn't know about it) but there's enough stuff about that on tv, the internet, in magazines etc. it's seriously impossible these days not to know how you get pregnant and how not ;)
posted Dec 29, 2011
Zahira O.
JAKARTA,
Indonesia
420 posts
OG since: 01/30/2010
i never really asked anything related to sex with my parents. i learned about PMS menstruation and stuffs when i was 5th grade, reproduction at 6th grade, then on 7th grade i had my first sex ed. i was never taught how to use condoms or to have sex the penis has to go through the vagina. they only taught me what parts of our body changes as we grow up, genital diseases, pictures of herpes and STD, and free sex is bad.
posted Dec 30, 2011
Adriana R.
LALA LAND,
United States
20 posts
Member since: 12/19/2011
I don't think she's an idiot, I think she's just cautious because she was never taught. Some schools are trying to take sex ed out, so it's not completely her fault. If anything, I'd be happy that she didn't know anything about it because then she won't try to rush into anything that she has no knowledge of.
posted Dec 30, 2011
Maia A.
MANILA,
Philippines
45 posts
OG since: 08/24/2010
Sex Ed isn't yet implemented in our country and yet we are street-wise and aware of this. I say, that's so wrong. :O
posted Dec 30, 2011
Harry J B.
LEEDS,
United Kingdom
297 posts
OG since: 05/30/2010
a girl i know (who was 18) gave a guy a bit of mild hand job behaviour, then took my friend to the doctors with her so the doctor could give her a pregnancy test and my friend told me that the doctor basically told her to leave, LMAO
posted Dec 30, 2011
Morgan B.
TORONTO,
Canada
159 posts
Member since: 12/03/2011
A lot of places do not have sufficient sex ed. It's sad.
posted Jan 4, 2012
Katie L.
INDIANAPOLIS,
United States
346 posts
OG since: 08/30/2009
At 14, I had yet to have a real sex ed class. I mean, in 5th and 6th grade we saw reproduction videos and all about puberty and whatnot, but never did I hear anything about sex in school or at home. I'm the second youngest, so by this point in the family, my parents relied on the school teaching us, rather than them teaching us. I learned all I know about sex from the internet and from experience.
So, I don't think she's dumb at all, just misinformed.
posted Jan 4, 2012
Laurie B.
ROTTERDAM,
Netherlands
113 posts
Member since: 11/06/2011
O this reminds me of something else, we have this Girlzmagazine in which they always have sextalk, so you can send your issues in and they answer your questions. Anyway, one of those girls asked if she could get pregnant from "sex with your shower" (she was 16!) and one if it was dangerous to do things with fruit.(she was 13..)
Some people are so weird. Though I think this is still better than two 11year old girls who had sex with eachother and sneaked out of the window when their mom came in. DUDE WHAT THE F? They were 11, if you're 11 you don't have sex with your best girl friend? Than you drink tea and talk about boys and have pjparties.
Overexperience at that age is much worse than being misinformed.
posted Jan 4, 2012
Reiel L.
JAPAN BUT LIVING IN MANILA,
Philippines
290 posts
Member since: 12/13/2011
she's just an idiot. doesn't she have sex ed class?
posted Jan 11, 2012
N T.
Indonesia
39 posts
Member since: 01/06/2011
Stupidity.
posted Feb 5, 2012
Lena B.
Germany
152 posts
Member since: 10/12/2010
I'm 14, almost 15, and I can tell you: No. Not all 14 year olds are like her.
Um, I guess, she's kinda...stupid?!
posted Feb 5, 2012
Tim G.
OUDENAARDE,
Belgium
222 posts
Member since: 05/21/2011
When I was 8 I already knew what sex was.
There was some kid in my class who stole porn from his dad. (':
I even asked my mom "a decent word for fucking"..
The poor woman was utterly shocked. Ooh, those times.. (':
posted Feb 5, 2012
May A.
EUROPE,
Spain
817 posts
OG since: 09/20/2009
I think she should know more about sex at her age, but I still believe that is better than girls having real sex and not realizing they can get pregnant.
posted Feb 11, 2012
MaryAlice M.
WONDERLAND,
United States
782 posts
Member since: 09/14/2011
BAHAHAH.
I was a fairly sheltered homeshooler, and I knew more about sex at age 10 than this girl! lol
But still, her innocence is nice to hear about. There are few people with that these days.
posted Feb 11, 2012
Monica D.
Bulgaria
242 posts
Member since: 01/25/2012
Exactly.
posted Feb 13, 2012
MaryAlice M.
WONDERLAND,
United States
782 posts
Member since: 09/14/2011
Me too. It is so saddening to watch children having children these days.
posted Feb 14, 2012
Lucy D.
LONDON,
United Kingdom
436 posts
Member since: 08/04/2011
she sounds pretty dumb but some people never grow out of that way of thinking. My friend goes for an STD check up every six months despite the fact that she hasn't even been intimate with anyone in that period of time. She also gets an HIV and AIDs text every 6 months even after her GP has told her countless times she doesn't even need one *facepalm*
posted Feb 14, 2012
N ..
Satellite Provider
123 posts
Member since: 02/14/2012
pregnancy IS scary.
posted Feb 25, 2012