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Ranim H.

Ranim H.

GERMANY,
Germany

110 posts

What do you do when you are for example in a train/bus store etc. alone.
and then suddelny u see a person that like reaaaally attracts you and u want to get to know that person.
Do you go to that person and say hi?
Cause i think this is kinda odd.

But if you do nothing.. you probably will never see that person again...
This happens to me a looooot i never know what to do.

over 4 years ago

#51
Alex G

Alex G.

COPENHAGEN/WARSAW,
Denmark

904 posts

When I see beautiful people random places, I tend to look. Not necessarily because I'm in love with them, but because they are just..beautiful. I never feel the need to start talking to them, I just make eye contact and that's enough.

January 16, 2010

#52
Jewely P

Jewely P.

THE SEA,
United States

100 posts

Ahaha I think I'm a bit more creeper than most of you.
For the most part, if I see someone I find really attractive- and they could be boy or girl, pretty is pretty to me- I tend to follow them a little and try to subtly get a good look at their face ahahhh.
And on the off chance we make eye contact
I'm off like a bat out of hell.

It's people like me that make talking to strangers look bad haha.

January 28, 2010

#53
Christopher Luck

Christopher L.

COLOGNE/MINNEAPOLIS,
Germany

62 posts

I always do a little 3 second rule - if you're walking down a crowded boulevard and you see an attractive he/she - I usualy make short eye contact - and to study interest - I let the person walk by - wait 3 seconds - and turn around. You'd be suprised at how many girls I caught, turning back around while talking to their friend to sneak another peak, Very cute.

January 28, 2010

#55
Sandy Rushton

Sandy R.

MANCHESTER,
United Kingdom

1185 posts

@Hannah R.

Awwwhh, Hannah that's really cute. You should try to meet up with him again. Perhaps bring amigos for added support.

But anyways, I've talked to strangers a couple times but usually I feel that they will snub me since if I find them attractive then tend to be older than me and better looking than me. Luckily I tend to go out with my boyfriend quite often so that reduces my temptation to flirt coyly with strange hunky men. :)

January 29, 2010

#56
Eilidh X

Eilidh X.

GLASGOW,
United Kingdom

308 posts

I use eye contact but i always wait for the guy to make the first move coz i do that in everything. Usually nothing happens but once a guy came to sit next to me on the bus after some eye contact. It turned out he was friends with people i vaguely knew from parties so we ended up being quite good friends for a while, i still see him sometimes.
But if yu have the balls, go for it, what is the worst that can happen??

xxxxxxxx

January 29, 2010

#57
Hannah Roach

Hannah R.

MANCHESTER,
United Kingdom

328 posts

@Hannah R.

He's about 3 years older so it might be weird if me & a bunch of todlers hang with him, do ya not think? & plus, he's a triplet so my amigos may try scaming on them & then we'd be related, craazyy!

I don't talk to strangers to flirt really. Mainly because I like befriending people. You can only gain from talikng to strangers, if they then look at you like you have 3 eyes then it's their loss, of course! but so far the stranger befriending fo me has gone down well... Except for this strange girl I added on facebook, she's called Sandy, she's very odd PA HAHA

January 29, 2010

#58
Sandy Rushton

Sandy R.

MANCHESTER,
United Kingdom

1185 posts

@Hannah R.

I bet she is odd. Sounds like a reet idiot.

Not really, I have older friends too...just don't let it slip away if you don't have to.

January 29, 2010

#59
Hannah Roach

Hannah R.

MANCHESTER,
United Kingdom

328 posts

@Sandy R.

I don't really no why I said that cos I have older friends too, I guess I'm just making excuses. But it was months ago that this happened, I couldn't suddenly say now let's meet really. Hmm I just know not to make that mistake in the future I guess. But you do speak wise words Rushton!

January 29, 2010

#60
Edward Honaker

Edward H.

SAN DIEGO,
United States

1462 posts

There is this girl who I see walking around at my school. I swear, she looks exactly like Katy Perry. Do you guys think I should use this pick up line?

"Hey baby, how about you try kissing a boy for once?"

January 29, 2010

#62
Vivian N

Vivian N.

HOGWARTS,
Canada

191 posts

@Christopher L.

Haha, I always do this to boys. I like turning around and watching them if I'm really attracted. But knowing me, they probably think i'm a gawking weirdo. Haha.

January 31, 2010

#63
Vivian N

Vivian N.

HOGWARTS,
Canada

191 posts

If he's listening to music, you could always go up to him and ask him what he's listening to. I've done that a couple times, it's worked pretty decently. Or compliment him, or make an observation, like if you're in line for something, you can make a comment, or something. It works often. I've also had my friends "accidently" push me into a guy, and then i'm like, 'Oh, i'm so sorry.' And then they normally say, "It's ok." And then I go something like, "I hope I didn't hurt you!" Or I make a comment about what he's wearing or his looks or something, haha. They tend to talk afterwards. Or drop your pencil by him, he'll pick it up, and you can be like, 'Oh, Thanks! I can't lose this pencil, it's lucky.' And sometimes they'll ask why/how it's lucky. There are honestly loads of ways you can talk to attractive strangers, it's just we have to muster up the courage to do it :)

January 31, 2010

#65
Hannah Roach

Hannah R.

MANCHESTER,
United Kingdom

328 posts

@Edward H.

What if she doesnt get it?
then you'll look like a fool...how about saying 'anyone ever told you you look like Katy Perry, you no...that hot babeee' then she'll be like 'teheehe aint you the charmer' then you drop in yo line ;)

January 31, 2010

#66
Nik Fayard

Nik F.

THE DARK SIDE,
Australia

6 posts

I recommend being in a band, or taking up photography or journalism or artist or something cool, even as a hobby. you can pretty much talk to anyone, i know from experience, band and photography/film have worked for me talking to anyone!/ meeting attractive girls. I have beautiful girl friend now waaaaaaaay out of my league and shes amazing. but its because i was taking fashion photos in the city and she just came up to talk and we hit it off and she saw me for my personality due to the conversation which is awesome, its been a 2 year relationship now, but i would never have talked to her in a club or anything. that takes balls.

February 1, 2010

#67
Edward Honaker

Edward H.

SAN DIEGO,
United States

1462 posts

@Hannah R.

I figure I'll already look like a fool anyway.

That's a good idea; I think I'll actually try it, but near the end of the semester, so she'll have a whole summer to forget my face,

February 1, 2010

#68
Hannah Roach

Hannah R.

MANCHESTER,
United Kingdom

328 posts

@Hannah R.

Come on Edward have a little faith in yourself! ( great now I've got 'faith'-George Micheal in my head -_-) She won't need to forget your face, you'll probally end up as great friends...or better :D
you seem like you are a charming kind of guy anywho so it really shouldn't be a problemo!
Go forth & work your magic! Best of luck pal x

February 1, 2010

#69
Edward Honaker

Edward H.

SAN DIEGO,
United States

1462 posts

@Hannah R.

Aww, thanks Hannah.

February 1, 2010

#70
Sophie J

Sophie J.

WISTERIA LANE,
United States

783 posts

this happens to me sometimes. i was in a supermarket and there was this AMAZING guy there, it was like a dream, but i didnt want to say anything cause he was probably 16 or 17 and im 13. :/ haha. thats what i hate about being young. im always attracted to guys usually that are in their 20's or even 30's but im certaintly not sexually attracted to them cause that would be creepy..and i would never date someone that was 20-30 or even 16! (15, yes). but i just find them attractive WAY more than kids my age. theres only about 3 people i've ever met that i was attracted to that were my age. sigh. like i secretly wish i was 30 so i could go ask george clooney out...haha
but yet i can tell if im ever 40 and single, i'll be a cougar and attracted to those young 25 year olds..haha

February 1, 2010

#71
PJ Dancer

PJ D.

JIM HENSON'S CREATURE SHOP,
United States

987 posts

@Sophie J.

George Clooney is yummy! He so yummy that even as Mr. Fox he was yummy!

February 4, 2010

#72
Catherine D

Catherine D.

AUCKLAND,
New Zealand

17 posts

Lol this is pretty much how I met my ex, he came up and talked to me in the middle of a food court... That relationship lasted 13 months, so I guess it can be a good idea? Haha I say go for it!

February 4, 2010

#73
Ratna Jamilla

Ratna J.

BATAVIA/BUITENZORG,
Indonesia

326 posts

i'll try to make sure i were seen by his and I would often come to that place
haha weird :)

February 4, 2010

#75
K B

K B.

TORONTO,
Canada

388 posts

I have. Because I see this person on a daily basis now.

April 1, 2010

#76
Zoë Rae Holthaus

Zoë Rae H.

MN,
United States

236 posts

I'd say hello if they're not to faraway, its nice if you're close by because that way you can almost bump into them and say oh hi im sorry then amke conversation..all movie style;D

but if someone was faraway at a bus station i dotn think i'd say hello but i would smile.

April 1, 2010

  

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